It's the turn of another decade, I'm 36 years old, and the more time that goes by, the more urgent it feels to compile a list of valuable information to pass down to my kids, that they can pass down to their kids, and so on.

In this life, I've had a child in every decade {16 years old, 22 years old and 31 years old). I've been poor and I've been well off. I didn't go to college, but built a successful business and went on to build 3 more. I've experienced death of loved ones. I've experienced depression, and I've experienced tremendous happiness. I feel like I'm at a good place to offer up some good old fashioned words of wisdom, so here goes!

1.) Don't quit one job until you have another lined up.

2.) Take lots of pictures. I mean, a TON.

​3.) Don't waste a single second of your life worrying about what other people think of you.

4.) Don't follow the trends. Set them.

5.) Your "check engine oil" light isn't like your gasoline light. {Ask me how I know... RIP, 1996 Geo Metro.}

6.) Never sacrifice your financial independence for anyone. Ever.

7.) Be kind, BUT never EVER let people walk all over you.

​8.) Rid your life of toxic people the moment you discover they're toxic.

9.) Failure is a part of life. It's the only way to determine success. Kind of like, no rainbows without rain, ya know? Learn from your mistakes and use them as building blocks to make you better.

10.) No matter how alone you feel, you never will be. I will always be with you. I mean that. I will always find a way.

11.) Don't wish your childhood away. 

12.) Stand up for what is right and stick up for people being wronged.

13.) Be the bigger person.

14.) School doesn't always make you smart. Education does. Never stop educating yourself no matter where you choose to do so.

15.) When baking, if a recipe calls to add the eggs separately, do it. There IS a reason.

16.) Learn a craft. You need to know how to do or how to make something. Always have something to offer. {Thank you, Mrs. Meyer (sp?), my 7th grade Home Ec teacher at Rogers Middle School in Affton, for teaching me to sew. Not only does it earn me a living, it is therapeutic.}

17.) Trust your gut. I'm telling you right now, it will not lie to you.

18.) College isn't everything. Loving what you're doing IS. There are very few places of employment that won't require EXPERIENCE. If you take the college route, try to obtain part time employment in the field you are in school for so you have the experience and education required to start your career immediately upon graduation.

19.) The saying "actions speak louder than words" has been around for ages for a reason. Words are just words. We say words out of emotion, things we may never really mean, it's in your actions that will show who you really are.

20.) Always support your small, local businesses first.

21.) You can tell a lot about someone by the way they treat you when you have money vs. when you don't. Pay attention.

22.) Forgive. Forgiveness is important, not for them, but for you. Being honest, though you may be able to forgive {maybe}, you will never {ever} forget what someone has done to you. Keep that in mind when going further in your relationships in life. {Because, actions...}

23.) Use the microwave as little as possible.

24.) Honesty is most definitely the best policy even if it doesn't seem like it at the moment. One lie leads to another and betrayal is hard to get over. We all make mistakes in life. Come clean and move on. Anyone worth being in your life will understand.

25.) If you are going to be "in" something, be ALL in. Whether it's relationships or jobs,  put your all in it or get out of it.

26.) Self care isn't a luxury. It's mandatory to be a successful human.

​27.) Having good manners is important.

28.) You will determine how people treat you by what you tolerate.

29.) Nothing is permanent. Nothing. Don't be afraid to take risks or to leave a town. You can come back from anything. All the magic in life occurs outside of your comfort zone.

30.) Respect and communication are THE key components of a successful relationship. Period.

31.) Learn to love yourself NOW. All the great and not so great things all make you, YOU, and you are amazing. It is imperative you recognize this.

​32.) Debt sucks. Always have a rainy day fund. You never know when you're going to need new wheels, lose a job, or break a limb. A good rule of thumb is to act like 20% of your paycheck doesn't exist and immediately transfer it to an account you won't use unless it's an emergency.

33.) Don't ever be afraid to stick up for yourself and I don't care what that means you'll lose in the end, because at least you'll have your dignity.

34.) There are friends, then there are FRIENDS, ya dig? Invest in FRIENDS. Nurture them. They are your village, and we all need a village.

35.) You only have one body in this life. Do right by it. Give it, bare minimum, 30 minutes a day of exercise. You will never regret it.

36.) Do not use food for comfort. While I'm at it on this one, also be aware of the food you are putting in your body. Some foods do nothing for you, some foods destroy your body and some foods heal and nourish your body. Know the difference.

37.) Set boundaries and adhere to them.

38.) You are in an era of technology where your answer to any question is always just a click away on a device you carry around ALL day long. Use your smartphone to make you smart.

39.) Be grateful. Everyday, be grateful. This world is an amazing place. If nothing else, be glad for each day you are here to be a part of it.

40.) Travel. 

41.) The people most worth keeping are the ones that loved you when you weren't always the most lovable.

​42.) A good friend will tell you the TRUTH, not just what you want to hear.

43.) Often times no one will notice what you do for them until you stop doing it. Keep doing it anyway.

44.) Never let the things you want in life make you forget what you already have.

45.) Lend a helping hand.

46.) Be relentless in the pursuit of what sets your soul on fire.

47.) Laugh a lot.

48.) When {if} you have children, make sure you are ready for them. It isn't fair and it isn't their job to have to grow up with you. {I love you, Hunter, and if you read this, I'm sorry.}

​49.) Live simply, it's less confusing and far more gratifying.

50.) Hold the door for the person behind you.

51.) You are here for a reason. You were created for a reason. No matter how bad life gets, remember that.

52.) Love your mother despite her flaws. You grew inside her. She carried you {in more ways than one}. She brought you into this world. I can guarantee you, every hard time you go through, she's going through it with you. When life is good, she's celebrating with you. Everything she does, she does it with you in mind.

53.) Only surround yourself with people that know your worth.

54.) Learn from your parents mistakes, don't repeat them.

55.) Everything WILL fall into place. It may not be in YOUR timing, but it always will.

56.) Never stay with someone that you have to beg to hang out with you.

57.) To my daughter: Under no circumstance is it ok for a man to raise his hand to you. To my son: It is never ok to raise your hand to a woman.

58.) Always keep a quarter tank of gas in your vehicle, at least.

59.) It's ok to change your mind.

60.) The kid sitting alone in the cafeteria - sit with them.

61.) Don't do drugs. Ever. Seriously, just don't. They will ruin your life if they don't kill you first.

62.) Don't eat yellow snow.

​63.) Tip your server.

64.) Return your shopping cart.

 65.) It's ok to say "no".

66.) Everything you do, do it with love, even when you've been wronged.

67.) Have patience.

68.) Don't judge people off of their political affiliation. It may be tempting, but don't. There are great people on all sides and it's a shame missing out on good people because of blanket judgements.

69.) Never ask a woman, "When are you due?", unless  you are a thousand percent positive she is pregnant.

70.) When {if} you have children, let them sleep with you if you want to.

71.) Life is short. Eat the cake. Just not too much, because -- health.

72.) If you're not going to wash your dishes right away, at least let them soak. Scrubbing sucks.

73.) Form is important. It's better to be able to do 5 pushups right than 20 wrong.

74.) Cook your own food as often as possible. It's healthier. It's satisfying. It is relaxing.

​75.) Never make permanent decisions in moments of temporary anger.

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Love,
​Liv

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With the holidays coming up, I felt it only appropriate to make a gift guide for the woman who is always thinking of everyone else -- mom.

With the minimalist movement underway and everyone searching for ways to declutter their lives I decided to make this gift guide with only the most meaningful pieces that mom will love and USE with a splash of gag gifts {for fun}.

This gift guide for mom is filled with nothing but the most unique gift ideas for every kind of mom and every budget. Whether you're shopping for a new mom, mom to be, mom of older children, and even animal moms, we have the perfect gifts for moms of all kinds!

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I can obviously find a ton of amazing mom shirts at Blue November, but my favorite, by far, is the MOM Maker Of Memories™ collection. To me, this encompasses everything that is a mother. We are always busy trying to make those memories. Me below enjoying my ultra comfy sweatshirt you can get yours on Etsy HERE.

If you're not about the sweatshirts, have no fear, this sweet design is also available in coffee mugs, trucker hats and t-shirts (like the one below) HERE.

Turn Grandma or Mom's recipe into a treasured heirloom with this personalized laser engraved cutting board! How unique is this?! Shop it on Etsy HERE.

As a mom of 3, I know all too well the struggle of having to hoard your ice cream, so have no fear now, mama. There's a reason this Mom's Ice Cream spoon is a bestseller on Etsy. It's because far too many mom's out there are fighting the same battle. Don't worry, this spoon will mark your territory. Check it out HERE.

This is marketed as a "new mama gift box", but for real, my youngest is 5, my oldest is 20, and I still feel like I need this now. I'm still tired & I still need all the coffee. All of your mom friends will love you. Grab this gift box on Etsy HERE.

Obsessed! I'm completely in love with these custom bracelets from The Salty Hut on Etsy. I personally want one with my kids names and another one with Panama City Beach coordinates! Not only are these a perfect gift for mom, they are perfect for women for Christmas, Mother's Day, birthdays or just because. Go customize yours HERE.

Truth be told, I've been in love with this Etsy shop, merriweathercouncil, since I first found Etsy back in 2012. These hand embroidered initial necklaces are so unique. All letters are hand drawn, then hand stitched, and 100% made in the USA from start to finish, which is rare this day and age. Any woman would love to have one of these. Check them out HERE.

I have literally not seen anything like this personalized family puzzle ornament up until now, and I'm in love with it! Find it on Etsy HERE.

I originally found CASignDesign on Instagram . I'm so in love with their signs. I'm also the biggest sucker for anything personalized, especially if it's personalized with someone's handwriting, which is why I chose this personalized handwritten sign on Etsy. Go customize yours HERE.

A good card is always a good idea. I don't know about you, but I save all the great things my kids make (or buy) me, so a good card never goes to waste. I'm particularly fond of this "Mom, you're the baddest bitch I know." card because, well, it suits me. LOL. Get it HERE.

Every mama loves a good sweatshirt to snuggle up in {it's me. I'm every mama}. People rave about the simplicity of this design and the ultra cozy fleece lining from Blue November. It's also available as a coffee mug, hat and t shirt, which is shouting "gift set" to me, which I'll link here as well. Get the sweatshirt HERE, the t-shirt HERE, the coffee mug HERE and the trucker hat HERE.

I love this "I Love You, Mom." soundwave art for so many reasons. One being that it is a digital download, so no shipping necessary and perfect if you're a total last minute person {like I am} since you'll receive it shortly after you purchase it. Grab one HERE.

They whine, I wine, we wine. (LOL) Well, if this isn't absolutely perfect. I'll take the "Best Mom Ever", please! You can actually customize these with any wording you want! Get your engraved bottle opener HERE.

Awe! I hope I never have to know what it feels like to be states away from my daughter, but if I do, we'll definitely have one of these long distance world maps. Check it out at KeepsakeMaps on Etsy HERE.

If you're shopping for a dog mom, or any animal mom for that matter, these custom pillows of your animal lover and her favorite pet make for the greatest keepsakes. Customize yours HERE.

If you're anything like me, saving all of your child's "art" can be cringeworthy. You know, you go to the trash can to clean out your child's daily kindergarten folder and just can't decide which piece of their work is the best and your mom guilt consumes you, so you keep. it. all. I feel like turning your child's really awesome pieces, especially their milestones {first time they write their name, etc.} into artwork minimizes that guilt because their artwork is displayed in your home where they can see it everyday, instead of tucked away in a bin that they will more than likely never look at. I stumbled upon this sweet handwriting sign and added it to my cart for when Hawkins writes his name for the first time. Grab your favorite piece of art from your child and head HERE to customize your wall art.

Literally, I'm cracking up. Like, just for fun - everyone needs these. Seriously though, I'm adding these to the list of gag gifts I'm getting for my kids. These face socks are way too funny and I'll bet your mama will LOVE them! Customize your pair(s) HERE.

Not the subtle type? Maybe you want to go big or go home and get her this custom face shirt instead or in addition to the socks?! Get this shirt HERE.

I love really unique jewelry. I love pieces that say something. That make a statement. That's why I love this Two Peas In A Pod mother daughter necklace set. Check it out HERE.

You musn't ever forget to pamper an expecting mama. It is exhausting growing another human being. I saw this eye mask and was like, "Yes!!!". Go grab this Napping For Two eye mask HERE.

When I thought I'd seen it all, then this pops up on my screen! Custom puzzles? Yes, please! So, even though this particular listing is for a mom puzzle, ForeverWeddingCrafts on Etsy has them available for all types of occasions... *runs to purchase 3 for my kids for Christmas* ;)  Get this puzzle HERE. 

Moms can't have too many tumblers. We need these to store our mom fuel that keeps us going day in and day out. The big bulky tumblers are out and these skinny tumblers are all the trend right now. Pair that with the hottest color of EVERY season, rose gold, and we have a winner! I really adore the simplicity of the fonts. Personalize yours HERE.

Kill 2 birds with 1 stone over at FierceDeer on Etsy with these sweet "established" necklaces. Snag one for mama and one for nana HERE.

Your mama's favorite picture out of laser cut metal... Now, THAT is one unique gift. Note to my kids: If you see this, mom wants it! Check it out HERE.

I love some sweet wall art. I chose this definition of a mother art print because A.) It's available on burlap -- so shabby farmhouse-ish, and B.) Because you customize your mom's name and what you'd like it to read. Personalized gifts never go out of style. Go snag this HERE.

The fist bump definitely sold me on this mug! Perfect gift for mom from her favorite daughter! Get it HERE.

I don't want to do too much of one category, i.e., necklaces, BUT I couldn't resist these. This listing comes with all 3 necklaces, perfect for a mama and twins or grandma, mom and daughter! Purchase the set HERE.

What's better than a family portrait? A custom pop art family portrait! On top of that, it's a digital download, so you don't have to wait for shipping! Personalize yours HERE.

I'm not a dog mom, but I know every single one of my dog mom friends absolutely want a necklace like this. I saw your typical personalized necklaces with your dogs name, but when I saw this pet portrait necklace, I knew that this was the perfect statement piece for dog moms reading this post. That's why it's an Etsy bestseller and over 20 people have it in their carts right now. Hurry and get yours HERE.

We use our purses everyday, do we not? How perfect to have your own personalized message to mom on the inside of a premium quality Italian leather clutch?! Check it out HERE.

As moms, what are your favorite gifts to receive? Tell me in the comments below!

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This day and age it is super important for consumers to know where and whom they are buying from. We are living in an era where people seem to want more things, but not regard the conditions or environments in which those things are made in (think Wish app).

​In an "ISO" world where consumers are unknowingly soliciting crafters to knock off branded small businesses, and these online pop up boutiques that see a picture of a shirt design they like on Pinterest, send it to a China manufacturer, and have them mass produce it for pennies on the dollar (often times cheaper than an ethically based U.S. business can get their wholesale blanks for), it's more important now than ever to know, not only where your clothes are coming from, but where anything you purchase comes from.

​To most, a t shirt is just a t shirt, right? You have your run of the mill typical t shirt companies slinging all kinds of shirts with sayings, but then, there are your hidden gems. Then, there are your companies that are forging movements, your companies that have a unique message to send, and I don't know about you, but those are the companies I want to support. That's where Blue November comes in.

Blue November isn't just selling t shirts, they are leading the virtual march to Normalize Motherhood with their #RockYourMotherhood and #NormalizeMotherhood campaigns on Instagram and Facebook.

What does it mean to Normalize Motherhood?

Allow me.

Each year, we as women waste millions of dollars on creams, lotions, and cosmetics that often times, don't work. We are targeted by huge companies, that prey on our weaknesses, that don't give a sh*t about us, to buy their products that don't work, that often contain cancer causing ingredients, for the sake of lining their pockets, when we could fix the "problem" for free by LOVING OURSELVES.

Side note: Don't get me wrong. I love me some make-up, but I love it for ME, not because I want to cover me up because society told me I have flaws that I need to hide.

The Normalize Motherhood campaign is a movement to normalize everything about motherhood that society tried to tell us was ugly. It is about reversing the thought process that we are flawed, about embracing your motherhood and encouraging all other mom's to do the same.

If all that wasn't reason enough to love Blue November, you should also know that they are a handmade company, and I mean really handmade.

A lot of consumers more than likely don't know that t shirt makers can purchase what are called, transfers, which are pre-made designs by someone else, iron them on a shirt, and still be called handmade. T shirt shops can have people design for them, order transfers made with those designs, press them on a shirt, and still be called handmade -OR- they can even design their designs and have a 3rd party company print and dropship their shirts for them and still be considered a handmade company.

While I wholeheartedly support many companies that do this (those that support and spread positive messages), you should know that, at Blue November, everything is literally handmade by the company from start to finish, from their trendy t shirts to their rad snapbacks and everything in between. 

You should also know that Blue November isn't just for mom's. It's not even just for women. They offer a lot of coordinating pieces for men and dad's, even kids.

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Mother's Day is right around the corner. This year it's on May 12! Have you gotten your baby's Mother's Day outfit yet? There is still time! Shop our designs HERE.

We also wanted to share some of our favorite Mother's Day activities! These are some super fun + simple ways to enjoy the holiday together. 

​Paper Plate Craft: http://nontoygifts.com/paper-plate-mothers-day-craft-kids/


Handprint Bouquet: http://alittlepinchofperfect.com/handprint-and-footprint-flowers-and-vase-craft-for-mothers-day


Tissue Paper Flower Pot: http://fromabcstoacts.com/tissue-paper-flower-pot


Heart Bouquet Card: http://www.makeandtakes.com/bouquet-hearts-card-valentines-day


Handprint Keychain: http://greyhouseharbor.com/diy-handprint-keychain/


Flower Pot with Sticks: https://typicallysimple.com/craft-stick-flower-pots/

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Mother's Day is quickly approaching and the closer it gets, we scramble to figure out the perfect way to honor the glue that holds the family together, Mom.  Sure, we can run off and buy a card and some flowers, but speaking as a Mom myself, most of us prefer those thoughtful homemade gifts that come from the heart.  What better way to show Mom love on her special day than your little one in this handmade "Happy Mother's Day" shirt with one (or all) of the special crafts I've found for you below!

If you've been searching for the perfect Mother's Day gift for Mom, your answer may be much closer than you think.  This sign language "I love you" card from Busy Kids Happy Mom is simply made with your child's hand print, scrap book paper, scissors, and a marker!  Check out the full tutorial HERE.

How brilliant is this flower bouquet made with Kleenex?!  All you need are the following supplies and this tutorial and boom!  You've got a will-not-ever-wilt bouquet of flowers for mom to last a lifetime (instead of a week, like real flowers)!

• Tissues (3-ply works great)
• Bobby pins
• Markers
• Scissors
• Floral tape
• Dollar store fake flowers if you want to make a bouquet

 

This "I Hooked Mommy's Heart" baby fishing bodysuit and toddler t-shirt is another perfect gender neutral tee for your little guy or gal to wish Mommy a happy day all Mother's Day long! 

Paint with toilet paper rolls?  You read that right!  What an excellent craft idea to make mom a Mother's Day gift with none other than her most favorite people in life!  All you need are some empty toilet paper rolls, a 10x10 canvas, paint, a photo of your kiddo(s), and this tutorial over at Creative Carmella!

Shut. The. Front. Door with this ridiculous cuteness right here!  This Mutha Luvah tee shirt is great for anytime of year, but especially on Mom's Day!  It's even available in several other color options!  Grab yours HERE.

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